Burned at the stake

by AL
(New York)

I met this 'lovely, funny, smart and very handsome' man who was all over me...until it was obvious that I liked him back.

Quickly then he became like vapor. Gone. Very defensive to any questions regarding his disappearance...always an excuse and then the charm comes back on.

After several tries of this, it has become obvious that this man will never change.

Being with someone like this is like someone heating up your heart so you think it can't be more in love, to then douse you with total indifference to your feelings, words, actions. Walk away while you still have self esteem left and thank God you had the awareness not to be totally sucked in. An emotional relationship with a narcissistic is like committing emotional suicide.